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I wrote this last year and wanted to post it again. I added an update at the bottom. I find I feel the same today as I did when I wrote it.

I took this back in the early 80′s from a small plane. Those days you were allowed to fly around Manhattan… I just always expected those two little towers to be there didn’t you?

Have you ever reflected on little segments of your life and realized just how much they influenced who you are today? One of the big questions that people will ask of each other this weekend is “where were you on 9/11?”. Everyone has a story. Each one unique and each of us on that day were changed. We hugged our loved one’s a little tighter, perhaps were a little kinder and  together we bonded in our love for our country.

If you have a memory or two tucked away that involves the World Trade Center, chances are you are pondering those as well. On that day, as I watched the first tower fall and then the second, I couldn’t help but reflect back to my days in NYC and an amazing dinner at Windows on the World with two very special people in my life. They, like the Twin Towers are no longer here.

It was a period in my life that was all good. I was a young naive college student studying design at FIT on 27th and 7th. I walked to work at Macy’s and had an amazing roommate and best friend from New Jersey named Lisa. We hung out at Columbia University, Studio 54 and the Underground. We were thin and fabulous. We wore short skirts, stiletto’s and designer clothes. Truth be told, we thought we ruled the world.

Making Memories in NYC… Lisa, me and Jinny

My Aunt Jinny,  a gentle soul that never married, called me one day from Cincinnati and asked if she could come visit for a weekend. I almost selfishly said no…are you kidding me? Give up a weekend to entertain my 60 year old aunt? Thankfully, I had some sense and told her I would love for her to visit. Looking back, Lisa and I had some of our best times with Aunt Jinny over the next two years. We would dress her up, give her a make-over, let her sleep in our dorm and take her out on the town as if she was the college student she never was. In return she would bring us skyline from Cincinnati, take us to tons of musicals and gift us with one special memory – dinner at Windows on the World.

It was a magical night. We took hours to get ready and then called a cab to pick us up. As the elevator climbed to the top floor of the tower and the doors opened up, you truly felt as if you were on top of the world. The view was incredible, the bathrooms fabulous and the food delicious. Back then, to us it was about being dressed up and out on the town at an exclusive restaurant that we could never ever have afforded as a college student. Today, I realize it was about being in a magical place that no longer exists with two very special people that meant more to me than words can say and like the World Trade Center… are no longer here. Ginny passed away shortly after the towers fell and unexpectedly, Lisa just a few years ago.

I am emotional. I was inspired to write this after I read a post this morning by Thrify Decor Chick; touched by her photos at Ground Zero. Now my mind is flooded with memories of Jinny and Lisa…I miss them. They made me a better person. Excerpts from a book written by high school friend Andrea Raynor called A Voice that Calls you Home swirl in my mind as I think about that heart wrenching day known simply as 9/11. In her book, Andrea shares her emotional journey including her days at ground zero blessing body parts and later, her battle with breast cancer.

I think of my friend Heath who is getting ready to leave his family to serve yet another year across the world I think of  my friend Cheri’s son Jake, and my children’s friends Jason, Zak and Ashley who are all in the different segments of the US Military. They make me so proud. I just want to wrap my arms around them and all the other brave men and woman who are serving our country and working to keep us safe.

Today, I am reminded how precious life is… How lucky we are to live in this wonderful place called America. In these trying times, in the midst of a struggling economy and financial struggles… we may not agree on politics or religion or even sports teams, but that fateful day on 9/11 reminded us that regardless of our differences, we are united in our love for this  beautiful place on earth called America. Today as I remember, I am especially grateful for that. xo Amy

Update: I am VERY excited that my friend Heath is coming home this month! I will get to see him at a Ohio State Football game this year – can’t wait to welcome him back! Jason left a few months ago for Afghanistan and his wife is expecting their second child. I’m keeping them (and all military personnel/families) in my prayers! Here is an article about my friend Andie (Andrea) that was in USA today recently. xo

Have a decorating question? Ask away!

Yesterday I started Three Tip Thursday, so today I thought…Hey! Why not a Free Advice Friday? I love answering all of your decorating questions so I though this would be a great way to have some fun and answer some pending questions! Addressing decorating questions is actually one of my favorite things to do! Here are some answers to some of your questions…

Valerie asked…

Q: I want to have an arrangement of Greek tiles and plates over the fireplace mantel. Is it okay to have the arrangement be a little wider than the mantel?

A: My initial thought was no, but as always, you have to sit back and think outside the box. The problem is not going wider than the mantel, it’s creating an arrangement that is “heavier” than the mantel. By extending the arrangement outside the width, you automatically are creating a “feeling” that it is heavier than the mantel which then takes the focus off of the area as a whole. BUT, as always, there are not rules to decorating – just rules of thumb. What I would suggest is if you want to go outside the area above the mantel, make sure you “extend” the width of the mantel with something to the left and right that balances it out such as furniture, large vases with arrangements, low bookcases that look built-in, etc… The one thing I would avoid (unless it’s built-in looking bookcases) is putting anything too “hard” next to the already “hard” fireplace. I always prefer alternating hard and soft. When I say soft I mean upholstered furniture, plants, etc.

Shirley asked…

Q: In my living room, I have a large window that is in a recessed area that is 88″ wide x74″ tall. It’s sort of like a bay window, but not curved. I would like to hang drapes on the outside, from floor to ceiling, but the problem is that across the top of the opening, it’s just the ceiling – there is nothing across the opening at the top, if that makes sense. The ceiling goes straight through to the recessed area. So, even if I hang a rod as close as I can to the ceiling, there will be a gap at the ceiling that goes through to the opening – won’t that look weird? Any suggestions?

A: This makes perfect sense Shirley. I actually have the same situation in a guest bedroom that I am working on in my home. You really have two solutions. The first is to locate the rod on the walls to the left and right of the window. The key is to hang the rod as high as you can and to use a drape that will have some material above the rod. Hang it so the top of the drape will almost touch the ceiling. The only issue you have is you really can’t use a support in the middle with a traditional rod, so the rod needs to be extra long so the extender in the middle doesn’t sag. Also, the drapes cannot be too heavy or they will cause it to sag as well. The second option and probably the best one, is to get a ceiling mounted rod – JC Penney and Ikea both sell them. This will allow you to put a support in the middle and will avoid any potential sagging problems.

Example of ceiling mount rod

Carol asked…

Q: My great room has 1 love seat (solid fabric) and 2 occasional chairs(solid fabric). I would like more seating. Do I purchase another loveseat or 2 more chairs and solid or print?

A: This is probably better answered if I could see your floor plan, but generally speaking, here are my thoughts… When planning your seating, there are three considerations. 1) traffic flow, 2)) conversation areas and 3 beauty. Your first consideration is make sure that you know where your main path of traffic will be and to not interfere with that. The second is that you never want to put a single huge seating area around the perimeter of your room. Ideally, you want to create a main seating area with one or perhaps two smaller conversation areas with the same room. The first is perfect for your immediate family or a small gathering.The second and third areas are great for reading, writing in a journal, playing games or  intimate conversations.

I like two loveseat on either side of a fireplace with two chairs that are facing the mantel. I also like a love seat with two chairs across from it. I would avoid a love seat with four chairs in the same conversation area unless you have a really large room and can have additional conversation areas as well – it’s really too many chairs in one place I think, but they could go in a smaller arrangement. Maybe a loveseat and three chairs would work better. I worry about four chairs overpowering the loveseat. Additionally, think of creative ways of adding seating such as ottomans tucked under a side table or in front a hearth or even hung on the wall as I did in my house.

Thirdly, this is where the beauty comes in…as far as solid or print, I’d say add some punch with either a print – floral, plaid or stripe or introduce some nice textures. If you do add chairs with a pattern, make sure to balance it out on your solid upholstery with complimentary pillows or throws!

Good Luck everyone and let me know how your rooms turn out! Amy xo

Whenever I discover something new I think of sharing it with you. It might be a new product I love, a favorite new recipe or an organizing tip that works for me! Today I thought I’d share a few of the things I love and if you like it, I just might make it a thursday routine!

I was in Florida for eleven days last month working with my business partner GiGi. While there, I’m always guaranteed to come home with great new ideas and below is my is one of my new favorites.

TIP # 1: The office organizer shown below from Wal-Mart sells for $15.54 online (I paid under $9 in the store) and is the PERFECT organizer for my make-up. I’ve always stored my make-up in a cosmetic bag and it drove me nuts to have to dig around to find what I want. Now, I might carry a small cosmetic bag with a few of the items in my purse for the day, but they always go back in this organizer when I get home. GiGi says when she travels, she just wraps it with cellophane and tosses it into her suitcase. I love that, don’t you?

The perfect organizer for my make-up

TIP #2: Another thing that GiGi introduced me to is OdoBan. I have a black knit jacket that I adore, but it had a musty smell to it. I just couldn’t get rid of that smell. Between you and I, I think I left it in the washer too long a while back and its never been the same since. That is until it met OdoBan. I picked some up at Sam’s Club when I got home and added a cup to the final rinse cycle and voila! The smell was gone. This stuff is amazing! Next, I added it to a load with my husband’s t-shirts and socks. This time I just put it in the dispenser for the softener. I Really, really like this product!

Works great on clothing to eliminate odors

TIP #3: When I was in Florida on vacation with my family in July, my favorite dinner was Mahi Mahi Taco’s from The Shrimp Basket.

Fish Taco's from The Shrimp Basket

Basically the taco’s are made with grilled/baked Mahi Mahi, finely shredded lettuce, chopped tomatoes, onion and shredded cheddar cheese in a small soft tortilla shell. Last night I re-created the recipe and instead of chopped tomatoes my husband used spicy hot Pico De Gallo – he loved it! He even went so far as to say it was his new favorite meal.  You really could use any fish. I used mahi mahi and baked it in a dish with a thin layer of olive oil topped with the fish, a drizzle of lime and a coating of a lemon garlic seasoning. It was very simple. My favorite part of the whole deal though is the sauce. I found several recipes online for “white sauce for fish” and then came up with a version of my own…

I began with 1 cup of grape seed vegenaise (a non-egg mayo-like product sold in the refrigerator section of whole foods – it’s delicious if you don’t want to use mayo). You could also use plain yogurt or sour cream or a mixture of any of the three.

Using a whisk, I stirred in a splash of dill pickle juice (enough to make it thinner).

Then I added a generous squeeze of Gourmet Garden cilantro (tube in refrigerator section of herbs/veggies at Wal-Mart)

Along with a generous squeeze (or two) of Gourmet Garden Chili Pepper (in a tube also). I taste as I go. I like it lightly pink. The darker the pink, the more of a kick it will have.

A few of the Ingredients...

Whisk the ingredients together and it’s the best fish sauce for taco’s ever! I served the taco’s with sweet potato fries and coleslaw. By the way, here’s a fourth tip…my favorite coleslaw is simple stupid, yet delicious. A cup of Marzetti’s slaw dressing (in the refrigerator section) + a one pound bag of shredded cabbage = the best slaw ever. Don’t bother with a fancy schmancy recipe. You can’t beat this. Yum.

Let me know if you try any of these! Have a great day! Amy xo

  

This was the weekend for planting flowers… we have this ritual each year where Mike and I shop together to pick them out, I plant them in all the boxes, pots and baskets on the deck and Mike will nurture them all summer. I think I get the best end of the deal, don’t you? 

When choosing flowers I like an english garden/wild flower look. I also like to mix up the texture and heights of the plants. I have a mix of sun and shade, so my flowers were chosen accordingly, otherwise I randomly pick flowers that I think compliment each other. Here’s what’s blooming 0n the deck this year…

We came home with three flats of miscellaneous flowers plus a few other things for fillers…

I started with my window baskets that hang on the deck rail and always include a spike for height, asparags fern and some trailing vines to hang over the edge.

 
Before I started though, I had to move Beanie…
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Beanie is either incredibly confident ora little crazy. Can you see the drop off behind him? I’m going with crazy. He was seriously sound asleep on that railing!
Here’s a hanging basket that is suspended from a decorative hanger on a column of the wrap around porch
I love this oversized tea-pot that I found at Wal-Mart… the bird’s nest was a bonus find when trimming overhanging branches!
 
I have a pair of railing pots on either side of a set of stairs that goes to the side yard. You can see that we still need to mulch, but will probably wait a bit longer so it is still rich and dark when we have Tyler’s graduation party in July.
 
I also planted a few hydrangea in a corner bed that desperately needed some attention. I’ll show you that when it’s done!

Of course one of my favorite Mother’s Day gifts is going in the garden bed as well! My oldest son Michael gave me this beautiful piece of art :)

And are these little guys not adorable? They’re my latest HomeGoods find! I do adore that place! 

I’ll post more later… it’s always a work in progress! I’m working on a few bedrooms and will have before and after shots that I’ll show soon, plus there are lots of ongoing organizing around the house as well – I’ve got some great organizing tips to share! Happy Memorial Day weekend! xo Amy

  

 
 
 

  

see something new this weekend...

 

I took a workshop on creativity many years ago and it was one of the best things I’ve ever done. I’m not sure if it’s because it was really fabulous workshop or because it was the first time since starting a family that I stepped out of my mom role and started to re-discover myself. It’s probably a combination of the two. 

One thing we  did over the 12 week workshop was to commit taking a creative date each week. The point was to go somewhere new and explore new experiences. It could be anything really. Shopping a flea market, seeing a play, going to a museum or sitting in a park. The payoff is a couple of hours to yourself to actually be present in the moment and to really “see” new things. This is when your creative mind opens up. A beautiful painting may inspire your next decorating project, a musical may get your soul dancing again and the park may clear your head of the day-to-day things so you can dream a little. 

I know… the house needs cleaning and you have things you need to do, but scrape an hour or two just for you, I promise you won’t regret it!  Tonight I’m going to a fun evening at the Senior Showcase at CCM (The University of Cincinnati’s College Conservatory of Music).  The creative energy within those walls is amazing! The next step for some of these kids is Broadway, so it’s going to be pretty special evening. So how about you? Can you find a couple of hours to explore something new? Have fun and let me know what you did! 

    

    

I’m baaaaack! After a small break from blogging, I’ve decided it’s time to dive back in! I really did miss you, xo! There are lots of exciting things going on around here. We’re getting ready to launch a new website design with lots of new organizing ideas – even a challenge!  We even have a new instructor in Qatar – how cool is that? In the next few weeks I’ll be able to tell start introducing you to everything that’s new, but in until then I thought I’d share with you a baking project I tackled this weekend and later this week I’m going to tackle some decorating questions!    

Cake pops and cake balls are quite the rage, so I thought they be fun to make for valentine’s day. It seemed like a relatively simple undertaking, yet what started as a fun little project that I thought I’d complete in one evening, ended up taking a few days. Although I had done lots of research before starting, I still struggled a bit and figured I’d save you some time and aggravation by sharing some tips. They really are simply yummy.and most definitely worth making.    

What you will need:    

  • Baked Cake (cooled)
  • About 1 can  (see tips below)
  • Melted chips, melts or bark

My thoughts and tips on the ingredients:    

CAKE: The icing gets mixed with the cooled crumbled cake. The amount of icing really depends on the type of cake that you use. The recipes that I found on-line called for either a can of icing or a box of icing. I found that is sometimes too much.    

I used two types of cake mixes:    

  1. Duncan Hines Strawberry - This was really, really moist. It ended up being delicious with Duncan Hines cherry icing and Wilton’s white candy coating, BUT, the first time I made it, used an entire can of icing and the balls were way too soft to dip, even after freezing. Complete fail. Lesson learned: the moister the cake, the less icing you need. In this case, a 3/4 of a can of icing was plenty.

     

2.  Naturally Nora’s Cheerfully Chocolate and Sunny Yellow - I have been wanting to try Naturally Nora’s cake mixes. I had seen them on a cooking show and then on-line. They’re all natural and said to taste like “made from scratch”. I have to say, I agree… yum. These cakes are heavy, not too sweet,  have a great texture and consequently need a bit more icing to make the balls hold together.      

ICING: The icing is the sweet yummy glue that holds the balls together. I think any kind is okay, but I used Duncan Hine’s Creamy Cherry which went well with the strawberry cake. I also tried Naturally Nora’s Cheerful chocolate Icing  with the chocolate balls which was easy to whip up and extra good.  I used the whole amount since the cake was a bit firmer than the strawberry one.   

Chocolate/Candy Coating:  I researched this the most. You can use any chocolate or candy coating. Chips, melts, bark, etc… there are lots of kinds out there. My microwave is on the blink, so I first tried melting Ghirardelli white chocolate chips in a double boiler which was a complete fail. I couldn’t get it thin enough, I tried adding oil, even milk… In the end, I coated some peanuts and pretzels and was completely done with it by late Friday night. If you look on-line you will find all kinds of recipes and tips for melting chocolate. It will make your head spin.     

By Sunday, I had decided to try Bark or Wilton’s melts and came upon a miracle: Wilton’s melting pot. I L-O-V-E iT! I wouldn’t melt chocolate or candy any other way. I found mine at Wal-Mart for $20.00 and it had me at hello. It’s amazing. I used the melts (haven’t tried the bark yet) and they were delicious. The BEST part about this contraption is it melted the chocolate perfectly and kept it perfect until I was finished, which was an hour + later. No re-heating, no lumps… just perfection.  My son stopped by right in the middle of dipping and although I took a break to get him up some white chicken chili and say hello to him and his adorable puppy earl, by the time I got back to dipping, it was still perfectly melted. Worth every cent.    

Did I mention that I love this thing? NOTE: I actually purchased the Deluxe model for $19.99, not the Pro pictured above which retails for $29.99.

 

I used the Wilton light cocoa melts and also the white ones

 

DIRECTIONS:     

  • Bake the cake in a 9 x 13 pan and allow it to completely cool.
  • Once cooled, trim any edges that are too crusty and discard or eat :) . Crumble the cake into small pieces.
  • Stir in the icing until completely blended with cake making sure not to add too much.
  • Form small round balls about the size of a tootsie pop and place each on a cookie sheet. I lined my cookie sheet with wax paper and used one that was narrow enough to slide into my freezer.
  • Freeze balls a minimum of 1 hour. After 3 hours, I placed mine in a sealed container and dipped a day later.

freeze the cake balls so they are easier to dip

 

  •  Melt the chocolate until completely smooth. I also read that ANY water will ruin the chocolate, so make sure the pot and utensils are dry. 
  • When you’re ready to dip, remove about a dozen balls at a time for dipping. If you take them all out, they’ll start to get soft and be more difficult to dip.
  • Dip the balls. I originally was going to make balls and not cake pops with sticks. I tried dipping the balls with a tooth pick and later a fork with the center prongs broken out and didn’t have much success. Finally, I tried 4″ candy sticks (I cut 8″ sticks in half) and they worked great! The key is to dip the stick in the melted candy before placing it in the ball. Note: if you want to do balls, I would suggest using a wire dipping tool, much like the simple ones you used to dip hard boiled eggs into coloring at easter.

Dipping the stick into the melted coating helps to secure it

 

Place the coated stick 3/4 deep into a frozen ball

 

Now you can start gently dipping the balls. I used a plastic ice cream scooper to help coat the balls and lightly skim the bottom to remove excess coating.

 

As you set each ball on wax paper to cool and harden, immediately sprinkle with jimmies, sparkles or nuts if you would like. If you wait more than a few seconds, it will be too hard.

 

These are triple chocolate balls (chocolate cake, chocolate icing and light cocoa coating) with white round sprinkles

 

I had some extra chocolate and decided to use it to cover some pretzels that I had. You could do the same with pecans, chips, peanuts, strawberries (dried and at room temperature), etc.

 

Yum.

 

 The bottom line really is Yum. Once I worked out a few things, they really were simple to make. You can store them in  a sealed container – no need to refrigerate. I guarantee you they won’t last long. I made sure to give mine all away ASAP… definitely too tempting to have around! Let me know if you try them and if you have any other tips!  Have a great valentine’s day! xo

I took this back in the early 80's from a small plane. Those days you were allowed to fly around Manhattan... I just always expected those two little towers to be there didn't you?

 

Have you ever reflected on little segments of your life and realized just how much they influenced who you are today? One of the big questions that people will ask of each other this weekend is “where were you on 9/11?”. Everyone has a story. Each one unique and each of us on that day were changed. We hugged our loved one’s a little tighter, perhaps were a little kinder and  together we bonded in our love for our country. 

If you have a memory or two tucked away that involves the World Trade Center, chances are you are pondering those as well. On that day, as I watched the first tower fall and then the second, I couldn’t help but reflect back to my days in NYC and an amazing dinner at Windows on the World with two very special people in my life. They, like the Twin Towers are no longer here. 

It was a period in my life that was all good. I was a young naive college student studying design at FIT on 27th and 7th. I walked to work at Macy’s and had an amazing roommate and best friend from New Jersey named Lisa. We hung out at Columbia University, Studio 54 and the Underground. We were thin and fabulous. We wore short skirts, stiletto’s and designer clothes. Truth be told, we thought we ruled the world. 

Making Memories in NYC... Lisa, me and Jinny

 

My Aunt Jinny,  a gentle soul that never married, called me one day from Cincinnati and asked if she could come visit for a weekend. I almost selfishly said no…are you kidding me? Give up a weekend to entertain my 60 year old aunt? Thankfully, I had some sense and told her I would love for her to visit. Looking back, Lisa and I had some of our best times with Aunt Jinny over the next two years. We would dress her up, give her a make-over, let her sleep in our dorm and take her out on the town as if she was the college student she never was. In return she would bring us skyline from Cincinnati, take us to tons of musicals and gift us with one special memory – dinner at Windows on the World. 

It was a magical night. We took hours to get ready and then called a cab to pick us up. As the elevator climbed to the top floor of the tower and the doors opened up, you truly felt as if you were on top of the world. The view was incredible, the bathrooms fabulous and the food delicious. Back then, to us it was about being dressed up and out on the town at an exclusive restaurant that we could never ever have afforded as a college student. Today, I realize it was about being in a magical place that no longer exists with two very special people that meant more to me than words can say and like the World Trade Center… are no longer here. Ginny passed away shortly after the towers fell and unexpectedly, Lisa just a few years ago. 

I am emotional. I was inspired to write this after I read a post this morning by Thrify Decor Chick; touched by her photos at Ground Zero. Now my mind is flooded with memories of Jinny and Lisa…I miss them. They made me a better person. Exerpts from a book written by high school friend Andrea Raynor called A Voice that Calls you Home swirl in my mind as I think about that heart wrenching day known simply as 9/11. In her book, Andrea shares her emotional journey including her days at ground zero blessing body parts and later, her battle with breast cancer. 

I think of my friend Heath who is getting ready to leave his family to serve yet another year across the world I think of  my friend Cheri’s son Jake, and my children’s friends Jason, Zak and Ashley who are all in the different segments of the US Military. They make me so proud. I just want to wrap my arms around them and all the other brave men and woman who are serving our country and working to keep us safe. 

Today, I am reminded how precious life is… How lucky we are to live in this wonderful place called America. In these trying times, in the midst of a struggling economy and financial struggles… we may not agree on politics or religion or even sports teams, but that fateful day on 9/11 reminded us that regardless of our differences, we are united in our love for this  beautiful place on earth called America. Today as I remember, I am especially grateful for that. xo Amy

Not just any folding chair....

As you will discover in my post on Monday, I am somewhat obsessed with Ikea. If I wasn’t completely immersed in renovating our website, it could be a problem! By the way, make sure to take one last look at the current website, because in a week or so we are going to throw a party to celebrate a brand new look – yay!

Speaking of parties… I love to have gatherings at my house. Chances are if its Christmas, Thanksgiving, Easter or time for a graduation party, we are celebrating it my house. Because of that, one thing that I’m always on the outlook for is a way to add extra seating. I finally got my cocktail area, but I had one blank wall that I was debating on what to do with, when I remembered these amazing wooden fold-up chairs at Ikea with… get this…  a HOLE in the back for hanging on a wall. Genius I tell you, simply genius.

I love that these can be hung on a wall.

These chairs are perfect to grab for guests during a party and look great hanging on the wall. Plus, beside’s that clever hole, there is something else I love about them just as much – they are (hold onto your pants) only $14.99 ea. Gotta love that! I picked up two and because the wall hooks at Ikea were sold out, I bought a pair at Home Depot on my way home that I actually like better. Once I got my tools together, it took me about 10 minutes to anchor the hooks into the drywall and done! The only bad thing was the tag left behind a bit of residue, but goo-off cleaned it right up!

Until I figure out exactly what to do with this corner, I placed an old tree there that I had along with a tiny birds nest... It will do for now. It's always a work in progress!

Make sure to hang the highest chair within an arms reach and leave enough room to lift the chair up to get it off of the hook! As I said this corner is changing... but I do like the picnic basket. It's holding the frisbees for Dolce and Sami. See Dolce at the door? She's driving me nuts and ready to go! Yipee.

Recently, Ashley and I had a baby shower for about 25 people and it was so much fun to reach to the wall and grab an extra chair for a guest. So stylish, yet totally functional; everyone loved them! xoxox Amy

   

Just another sunset in Cayman...

 

I’ve gone to the beach for a week each summer since I was a young child and this year was no different. I know I’ve been awfully quiet around here – but it’s been busy behind the scenes and there are lots of good things happening around here. I’ll share more over the next few weeks, but one of the reasons for my absence was our annual family vacation at the end of July. Today I thought I would give you a glimpse into our week!  

I love the fact that some of my children’s favorite childhood memories include family time at the beach. We’ve been to Ft Meyers, Panama City, Myrtle Beach, The Outer Banks, Destin, Perdido Key, Gulf Shores and this year Grand Cayman. Some years we go with just the five of us, others have included girlfriends, boyfriends, grandparents, aunts, uncles, cousins or friends. One thing is constant – we always go to a beach.  

This year my friend and business partner Margie invited us as her guests for a week at one of her Conch (Konk) Point Villas in Grand Cayman. Also visiting from Jamaica was her nephew David, along with his adorable wife Indi and their beautiful children Seana and Thomas. The following week, Margie’s daughter Lisa (of PickMeYard) and her family visited Cayman. You can read about their fabulous Cayman Bee Adventure here.  

Our family is pretty laid back when it comes to vacation, meaning give us sunny skies, a beach, lots of sunscreen, food, a place to sleep and you can call us happy. Throw in a fishing rod, a cold beverage (cold Red Stripe or Lemon Ginger iced Tea, thank-you very much), a round of tennis, swimming with Stingrays and you got it…it doesn’t get any better than that.  

Note: If your children are in love with someone back home, make sure to throw in the internet and a laptop. Tyler’s girlfriend Jaimie was planning to join us for a few days, but her flight plans didn’t work out and Ashley’s firefighter man Greg was working. Thank God for Skype. I don’t know what we ever did back in the old days without modern-day technology… how did we ever survive? Haha! Sharing a lone laptop caused a bit of drama, but hey, seriously, what family doesn’t have drama? Oh, to be young and in love again…  

Anyway, last year’s vacation was to be a very special one celebrating my parent’s 50th wedding anniversary, but an act of random violence put my youngest son in the ICU and quickly ended that vacation. The unexpected death of my father-in-law a few days later made it worse. I haven’t written about that time in our lives for a lot of reasons, but here’s a public statement I released about it after it happened and here’s a recent article about my son’s miraculous recovery. Continued prayers are welcome! Needless to say, we were looking forward to a quiet vacation this year and it didn’t disappoint.  

In the spirit of less talk and more visuals, here’s a recap – enjoy!  

Hello Cayman! We made it! Here we are going on 36 hours with no sleep. We almost lost the fishing rods and hit a tiny snafu regarding passports, but hey we are here ... happy to have arrived and loving the steel drums that welcomed us.

 

Fast forward 20 minutes and vacation was on!

 

If you wanted to find my husband all you had to do was look towards the beach. Chances were you would find him in his chair with a cigar in hand.

 

Michael could be found soaking up the rays in his shades.

 

Ashley of course, after a morning of sun was always ready to shop

 

Tyler really did try to get a tan. Here he is after a morning run making friends with a neighboring dog.

 

My intentions were to read Eat, Pray, Love... the truth is I got to page 32. I did get to finish it during the 7 hours of travel time we had on the way home. Looking forward to seeing the movie!

 

The kids and Mike fell in to a routine of playing a "friendly" round or two of tennis every morning. I usually spent that quiet time straightening up from the day before, but did take a moment one morning to show them my serving skills! There was never a dull moment in tennis: let's just say no one likes to lose. Notice the laptop in the foreground? That is one of the places where Ashley and Tyler Skyped during the week.

 

Here's Tyler showing Jaimie the beach from his spot at the pool.

 

Some days you could find Ashley and Margie looking for shells...

 

You could always count on seeing a friendly Iguana or two...

 

To the left of our villa was a wall in the sea, perfect for fishing.

 

Mike paid fifty dollars to bring his rods from home.

 

We learned from our new friend David that all you really need is a roll of line...

 

and a good hook.

 

Didn't catch any fish? No problem... a quick trip to where the local fishing boats come in every night is a great place to get fresh fish for dinner!

 

Dinner was always delicious and it was fun to dive in learn new things! As you know, I have to lots to learn about cooking and am like a sponge when it comes to trying new things. Just make sure you explain to me exactly what you want me to do... chances are when you tell me to mince something I'm not always exactly sure how to do it, haha! Dinner was often followed by a spirited game or two!

 

One evening Michael found a friendly crab on the beach and brought him up to visit. And yes, he released him back shortly after I took this photo!

 

We had lots of new adventures like when Michael and Tyler found a coconut and decided to drink its refeshing juice.

 

...one day Mike went straight to Hell!

 

Later we all saw the amazing Art of Guy Harvey.

 

That same day we drove the length of the Island and stopped to see the famous Blow Hole...

 

Looks pretty peaceful doesn't it? But, looks are deceiving...

 

Ashley was the good child and stayed a respectful distance away...

 

But trouble one and trouble two didn't listen to their mother and Tyler just about went into the blow-hole. He was a bit wet for a while after that!

 

From a distance it was pretty spectacular.

 

We stopped at rum point and looked around... it was like a ghost town since the cruise ships had long since sailed.

 

Down the road, we found a lovely little beach-side restaurant to have dinner. Seana and Thomas had fun on a swing and playing along the shore as we waited for dinner.

 

One of our favorite adventures was to Stingray City. Everyone told us to go there and we weren't disappointed!

 

Turns out that Stingray City is a shallow area out in the middle of the ocean. The only way to get there is by boat and it was breathtaking

 

We set anchor and jumped in to join the fun!

 

Stingrays were everywhere and the boat next to us was feeding a group of them. The stingrays were loving that and so were we; we were surrounded by them instantly.

 

They were so happy to see us... they rubbed against legs and this one gave us a great big smile!

 

Ashley even gave him a big kiss!

 

Seana hung with me for a while as we made some new friends

 

Thomas donned his snorkel gear so he could see everything underwater.

 

Michael of course had to catch his own stingray and our guide said he was hired!

 

Ashley was brave enough to hold one too...

 

And of course... Mr. competitive wouldn't leave until he caught and held one too! We had a great time!

 

Mike and Ashley on the way back...

 

Yep. Life is good

 

Ashley wanted to do some Island shopping and I had my first adventure of driving on the left with the steering wheel on the right. I have to say I loved it and was actually pretty good at it... maybe being left-handed helped? No comments about my driving allowed here, Ashley :)

 

We made a stop at the local firehouse to get a t-shirt for her firefighter man back home and she talked the first fireman she saw into giving her the shirt of his back - literally. Oh, to be young and adorable again!

 

Of course a local shopping trip wouldn't have been complete without a stop for a Margarita at Margaritaville. Note: I was driving and had ice tea!

 

The time flew by and before you knew it, it was time to go home...

 

Oh Cayman, we will miss you! Thanks to Margie for sharing her little piece of heaven.

 

Did I seriously just post that many photo’s? Haha! Couldn’t find one to cut! xoxox Amy

It's like having "people"

 

Chances are if you love to decorate, you also love to move your furniture around and if you’re like me… when you’re ready to move it, you don’t have time to wait for someone to help you. Enter the worlds greatest backsaving invention: Furniture Sliders. These little suckers will take the weight of a piece of furniture I can barely lift and glide it across the room like butter. They are that good. This weekend I moved an entire bedroom set (photos coming soon) from one room to another; crossing from hardwood over to carpet in less than a half an hour. 

  

 There are a couple of brands on the market that I know of including the original EZ Moves, Waxman Super Slides and EZ Sliders. I’ve used each of them and I like them all.   

I saw this display (see below) of 16 pc. Super Slides at my local Lowe’s Store last night for an unbelievable price of $9.99. It’s the best deal I’ve seen on slides. If they have them at your local Lowe’s I’d grab them. Heck, grab a few extra and give them as a gift for new homeowners!

  

Lowe's currently has these Super Slides for $9.99.

 

 Wondering how furniture glides work? Check out this video from Bed, Bath and Beyond…   

Click on the photo above to go see a demonstration.

 

 Don’t forget, drawing up a floor plan is the best way plan your arrangement and know it will fit BEFORE you move you move the furniture. To make it even easier, you can find and print free grid paper over at the Assistant Product Group. Don’t know how to draw a floor plan? No problem… you’ll find free instructions as well! Click on this link and look in the right side column under Decorating Tools!   

So that’s my tip for the day. Your back will thank you and family members may even volunteer to help! No promises on the last one – haha! xoxox Amy 

Quite addicting it is...

 

I haven’t updated you lately on Project Organize 2010, but I assure you it is alive and well. I actually have fallen in love during the process – this week I’m love with labelling! The thing about this whole house organizing project is it’s fun and instantly rewarding. You can’t beat that! I actually look forward to having a few hours to organize a new little area. That’s the beauty of it. Only have a half hour? No problem! Just do a quick drawer or two.   

The key to successful organizing and maintaining it is having a place for everything and everything in its place. I probably owe my mother an apology. I would just roll my eyes when she would say “where are my scissors”. She instantly knew that they were missing because she had a “home” for them and if they weren’t there, chances are I took them! I “get” this now. So sorry mom :) xoxox   

Anyway, labelling is a beautiful thing. It’s the finishing touch to a newly organized area. Plus it really does help you find things easier. Especially when you’ve re-located things. For example, remember the messy, messy closet next to my kitchen? Well yesterday, Ashley called me at the office and asked me where the food coloring was for the red, white and blue flag cupcakes that she was making. They were inspired by the way by Thrifty Decor Chic and 17 and baking . Ashley’s creative twist was that she layered red, white and blue cupcake batter, iced them white, put them in a cupcake carrier and decorated the top left cupcake with blueberries (to represent the flag’s blue block with stars) and the remaining cupcakes with a red strip of strawberry (representing red and white stripes). Yep, If I was a good blogger, I would have taken photo’s when I got home, but I had other things on my mind. We were in a rush to get to see Edward and Jacob – it was a movie night last night! But I digress…   

Back to labelling. Ashley asked where the food coloring was and I said “in a plastic bin on the shelf of the closet next to the kitchen. It’s labelled Baking Decorations. And guess what? IT WAS THERE! Really, it was a pretty special moment for me… haha!   

A thing of beauty if I may say so myself!

 

I’m using a Brother P-Touch for my labels, but you could also use clear file labels printed from your computer,  although I do think the labeller is definitely the way to go. It’s a bit less time-consuming and I’m all about saving time!     

Just love this little guy!

 

And guess what? Remember my messy hall closet from a few months ago? Have it reverted back to being messy? Nope, nada, no way baby! It looks like this…   

More beautiful than ever, haha!

 

The thing is that once you get going, you discover it’s about layering. Things evolve and change, but it’s all about getting started which is the hardest part. For instance look at the before and after shots of the closet when I first began and then the one above from today with labelled bins. You can see the progression. One of these days I’ll organize the box with candles as well, but not today. I have bigger things to tackle at the moment! xoxox Amy

The Solution

 

 I have a confession to make. I H-A-T-E  looking at my new carpet. Hate it. It is driving me nuts. Don’t get me wrong, I love the carpet. It has flecks of gold, creme and brown and it’s exactly what I wanted. It will hold up to traffic, feels good on my feet, doesn’t show a lick of dirt and is a great color…unless it’s next to the painted wall. Today I realized it’s the paint. It makes the carpet look ugly and it’s not ugly. It’s all about the paint.  

 Here’s the story. I have golden/yellow paint in the living area which I love, a deeper greenish gold in the entry which I hate don’t love and another shade of gold in the  dining area which is okay, although it’s a tad bright when the sun comes in. It’s complicated to explain how those three different shade got in my house, but the simple fact is I don’t like them together and I don’t like them with my carpet. I preach all the time about whole house planning and technically I have followed my plan by having all yellow/gold walls – but because they are all a different shade, they are driving me nuts. Absolutely nuts. It took the carpet to make me realize it.  

The solution. I love my woodwork, drapes, furniture (well most of it!), slate and wood floors. The paint though is a problem, but lucky for me it’s the least expensive thing to change. And even better, I found a fabulous painter who is a perfectionist, slow and inexpensive. I adore him. Sooooooo… when he finishes up a few other jobs he is going to paint my entire lower level one single color. I am so excited. It’s a perfect example of why continuity and planning ahead with a Whole House Plan is important.    

Anyway, here are some “before” shots of my stairs when we moved in and “after” showing the new carpet. Keep in mind that while the paint looks horrible with the carpet…that will not be an issue in a few months!  

Yikes! I forgot how bad it was when we first moved in! Pink wallpaper, blue carpet and inexpensive grey ceramic tile. Ouch!

 

We painted several years ago, pulled up the carpet, and laid a gorgeous slate floor. Love, my slate floor! Like the paint with the wood and slate, but it's just not right with the new carpet or the rest of the house. That will be changing for sure!

 

As I mentioned the other day, I chose to bind the edges of the carpet rather than roll them making a nice clean finished edge.

 

Here's a photo looking up the stairs from the landing. I know, paint is awful with the carpet. Say no more.

 

And here's the second set of stairs looking down the landing. It will be perfect once I get the new paint on the walls!

 

New carpet and a chip of the future paint! I can't wait to show you the final photo's. It will be soooooooo much better! The paint is Valspar from Lowe's

 

  Whoooo… I feel so much better now that I have a solution. I actually thought at first it was the carpet I hated, but thankfully, after exploring it more I realized it’s just a matter of paint. xoxoxo Amy    

From Decorate Fabulously! (click on photo for info on workshop)

 

I said in a post back in April (oh my, how time flies!),  it is definitely time to replace the upstairs carpet. Not only because it’s horribly old, extremely ugly and here when we moved in, but because our beloved black lab Duncan had some serious bladder control issues before he lost his battle to lymphoma.  

I pulled up parts of the old carpet and sealed the subfloor right after the April post to prepare for the new. Sealing it was great solution as it permanently sealed in the stains on the subfloor and the smell disappeared for good. It was definitely worth the effort and personally, I think it’s the only solution for pet stains.  

One thing that I like to do in my blogs is to share my thoughts behind my decisions. Designers are trained to sit back, analyze and think out a job before jumping into it which is something that you can learn to do too. The process can help save you time and money.  

In my case, there are two defined areas for new carpet with two different sets of requirements.  

THE TWO AREAS TO BE CARPETED:  

  1. The stairs, a landing, 20 ft. hallway and a study connected to our master bedroom.
  2. Two bedrooms that were my children’s. Now that they are on their own, almost on their own, we are converting them into guest bedrooms.

THE FACTS:  

  1. Fresh paint in picked out for both bedrooms. Jim, our new favorite painter was here to do one bedroom last week and is finishing the 2nd this week. I had the carpet installed first so the newly painted walls wouldn’t get scratched by the backing of the carpet. Warning: Unless freshly painted walls have a month or two to completely dry, chances are that even the best carpet installer will leave a scratch or two… or three. It’s hard to avoid. A good painter will use tarps to protect your carpet and furniture.
  2. I am working with a whole house color (I will blog about this soon)  that is a cornbread-like gold by  Behr called Gold Buff.. It is on most of the walls of my lower level, up the stairs, in the hallway and in the study. The carpet needs to coordinate with this color. It sounds like a lot, but it’s actually very neutral and it makes me happy.
  3. I needed the carpet installed ten days after ordering because I had an unexpected guest visiting. See note below.
  4. Price is a factor, but I will pay more for a carpet that will wear well and that I really like, rather than settle for a lower priced carpet that I feel looks cheap from the get-go.

NOTE: I do not recommend doing anything when you need it in a rush. I will admit that I almost always am doing a project because of a special event such as out-of-town company, a graduation party, etc which is not a good thing.  Chances are if you make choices in a hurry, you will regret it. I sacrificed my number one pick of carpet for the stairs and hallway because it was back ordered. In the end, it didn’t come in on time anyway and when it did come in the stairs were bound incorrectly. 

Art and James, who installed the 2 bedrooms  back in April are my favorite installers (another crew did the hall and study) and I wanted them to finish the job. I ended up waiting till this week when they were finally available to get the job finished. It was totally worth it and I am so glad I waited for them. There is a huge value in good workmanship and it is always worth the wait.  

REQUIREMENTS  

The Two Guest Bedrooms:  

  • Carpet must coordinate well with the new carpet in the connecting hallway that will be a different color and style.
  • I prefer a neutral color so I am not locked into a specific color five years from now.
  • Medium grade is acceptable since it will get very little wear.
  • Must feel good under bare feet.

I chose a frieze, which is really pronounced like “freeze”, but most people say it like free-zay…  

Frieze: a cut pile in which the yarns are extremely twisted, forming a “curly” textured surface. It minimizes foot prints and vacuum marks. The Frieze is similar to the old mini shag but the carpet strands are thinner with a bit more twist and resiliency.   

Personally, I like the look of frieze. It’s a little less formal than a traditional plush and has a cozy feel. I went with an oatmeal shade. I actually considered a frieze for the hallway and stairs, but it tends to crush when walked on until the next time that it is vacuumed. That’s not a good thing for my highly travelled stairs, but it made perfect sense for the bedrooms.   

I selected a carpet that was $2.30 per square foot installed with padding. There was also a special that gave me an extra $200.oo off due to the quantity. The price included the removal of the old carpet, moving furniture and installing the new. I thought that was a pretty darn good deal. Please remember that I am in the mid-west. Prices in NYC or California… aka areas with a higher cost of living, will be higher for sure. The key is to know your market.  

The Thumb Test: I give carpet what I call a “thumb” test to judge the quality of a carpet. The cost of a carpet is directly related to the density or the thickness of yarns per square inch. Since it’s never listed, I simply dig my thumb into the pile (yarns). If I can easily feel the base of the carpet, chances are it’s of a lesser quality and that it won’t wear as well as a higher quality carpet. If you feel very little of the base because of the yarn density… then it’s a higher quality and it will typically wear better. Use this knowledge when weighing in on your decision. Additionally, spending a bit more on padding will extend the life of any carpet and feel better under your feet. If price is a factor, definitely do not scrimp on padding.  

Industry Ratings: (From Shaw Carpeting)  

Ratings from 1 to 5

On the label of every residential carpet style, you’ll find an easy-to-find, easy-to-understand Performance Rating.  

Rated from 1 to 5, the scale represents the carpeting’s ability to withstand extended wear. A perfect rating of 5 means that after rigorous, industry-standard testing, the carpeting maintained the appearance of brand new carpet.  

A rating of 4.0 or above is considered outstanding. These carpets are recommended for heavy traffic locations, including family rooms and children’s areas.  

A rating of 2.5 to 4.0 is predicted to provide normal durability. These carpets can be used in most home applications if properly maintained and cleaned.  

A rating below 2.5 should be considered for light to moderate traffic areas only, such as bedrooms.  

NOTE: It’s not practical to associate years with the carpeting durability rating. There are so many variable factors— area of the home, traffic patterns, number of inhabitants, level of proper maintenance, etc.— that what might be only three years of acceptable carpeting performance to one could be a lifetime to another.  

The carpet performance rating results from rigorous testing that conforms to industry standards. Some of other definitions for carpet terms are:  

Face weight - The amount of surface yarn in a square yard of carpet (expressed in ounces per square yard), excluding that which extends below the primary backing.  (*Note-face weight will not be available on all styles and should not be the primary factor for choosing a carpet).
Twist - The number of times fiber strands are twisted together in a one-inch length of carpet yarn.  Twist affects the texture and look of cut pile carpet.  
Density- How tightly carpet fibers or yarn is packed together and bound into the carpet backing.  Higher density affects the appearance of the carpet and provides greater comfort and luxury underfoot.    

Click here for a great article I just found with tons of information regarding carpeting. It’s worth the read if you are going to invest in new carpet!  

Now… back to my house:  

Requirements for The Stairs, Landing, Hall and Study:  

  1. Must be Durable.  The stairs get a ton of traffic from people and pets. I don’t want it to easily crush or snag
  2. Easy to Clean.
  3. Have a Pattern. A pattern or multi color carpet was important because I’m only vacuuming those stairs once a week. We have 2 cats and 2 dogs; one sheds so much I could knit a winter wardrobe from the collection of hair I vacuum each day. If there is hair, so be it, but that doesn’t mean I want to see it.
  4. Coordinating. The carpet must coordinate with a slate floor in the entry, gold walls and medium to dark stained trim, stairs and crown moulding.

The stairs are ”L” shaped and split by a landing. The lower stretch of the stairs are open on one side with a medium finish. I should add that they are beautiful just as they are, but I slipped down a set of wood stairs one time and am lucky I didn’t break my neck. In my opinion, uncovered stairs are not  plus if you have a lot of traffic they will eventually look a mess.   As a result, I am opting to have a runner on the stairs. I’ll still see some exposed wood, but it will be safer for us.   

 The old carpet was 24″ wide and ran up the center of both the open stairs and then above the landing on the closed stairs. Because the first set of stairs in the entry hall  is wider than the top set, I made the runner 29″ wide to appear a bit grander and emphasize that the steps were wider. I stayed with the original 24″ wide runner for the remaining stairs. Note that a landing separated the stairs as you can see in the photo below.   

When making a runner you have several options:  

  1. The installer can simply fold under the ends of the carpet to make a finished look
  2. The company can pre-bind the ends with a matching fabric for a crisper, cleaner finish.
  3. Some carpet is available pre-bound and sold specifically for stairs.

I chose the second, but it’s really a matter of preference. It was about $200 more, but I like the finished look of a binding.   

Back to my selection: I chose a thick, medium height cut pile carpet with several colors of thread. It was quite a bit more, costing me $4.20 a square foot, but worth it to meet my requirements. The price included the same services as the carpet selected for the bedrooms. I also need to add that aesthetically, I wanted a gorgeous printed pattern or a loop with an interesting weave, but in the end practical won out. Darn animals.  

CHOOSING A RETAILER:  

I chose to work with a small retail store called Simply Floors. It’s a small family owned business that I preferred because:  

  • Someone  long ago recommended them to me.
  • I have used them before and like them.
  • I knew I could trust them.
  • Time was an issue and they could get my carpet installed quickly.
  • Their pricing is reasonable.

If you go to this design-a-room link courtesy of Armstrong on their website, you’ll find a cool tool that will show you what a room will look like with different finishes. It’s a great way to get design ideas.   

At the last-minute, my pain in the beloved husband wanted me to go to Lowe’s or Home Depot to get a better price. Very begrudgingly I did, but I will admit it was interesting to verify that Lowe’s and Home Depot were very, very similar in price. In fact, a bit more on one and a bit less on the other, but it was going to take month to get it in. Because of this, I stuck with my original choice.  Two days later, I ordered from Simply Floors.   

Note: This extra price shopping put me back two days and my stairs didn’t get done in time for my out-of-town guest, arghhhhh!!!! Then, as I said earlier, when they did come in they were wrong. That’s okay though, because I knew Simply Floors would make them right, which they are doing today.   

If you are comparing carpet prices, here are a few things to look for:  

  • Compare “thumb” tests.
  • Compare the entire package per square foot. Add the removal of old carpet, moving of furniture, if applicable, carpet, padding, installation and take-away. Then compare.
  • Give value to personnel. Choose a reputable business with people you trust. Relationships have a value.  If you have a problem down the line, a good relationship with a reputable company will be worth spending a bit extra per square foot. 
  • Quality installers may cost a bit more, but are sooooooo worth it in the end. It’s senseless to put money into something and then not have it done right.  If a quote is significantly less than other quotes you receive, going with the least expensive is NOT always the best route, because ultimately, you may end up paying more in the end or settling for something that is not up to the standards that you should expect. 

Although I went with a smaller family owned store, you can find good personnel  at a big-box-store as well as at a small mom and pop store… asking friends and family will quickly tell you who you can trust and I put a lot of value into reviews on-line as well.   

Tomorrow I’ll have “before”, “during” and “after” photos of the stairs. Art and James are finishing them up today, I can’t wait to go home to see the results. It was worth the wait to have it done properly. Next week I’ll share “before”, “during” and “after” photos of  of the two bedrooms which had a design change mid-process when my away-at-college-year-round-son put in his two cents.  Apparently, he is not ready to let go of his room yet, which is fine with me.  xoxox Amy  

PS.  Come home and visit Tyler!  

Appreciating what I've always taken for granted

 

I spent a week every summer of my childhood on a beach. Most of those weeks were spent at the ocean on a Gulf Shore in Florida or Alabama. When I married and had children, my husband and I along with my parents, continued the tradition by creating beach memories of our own each year and in July of this year we will head to the beach again.  Recently, while on business in Florida, I joined my friend Gigi, her daughter Lisa, and Lisa’s family on the beaches of Sanibel Island on a Friday afternoon. The thought behind this impromptu trip was Lisa and Greg’s children might not get to see these beaches and their glorious beauty again for quite some time if the oil spill takes over these precious clear blue waters as predicted.
 
It was here in Sanibel, on a late Friday afternoon walk on the beach, I realized just how much these Gulf Shores are a part of who I am; how they inspire me and how much I love this beautiful world we live in.

Come take a walk with me…      

The view overlooking the Causeway as we headed towards Sanibel Island reminded me just how vast and blue these sparkling gulf waters really are.

 

This sign greeted us as we walked to the beach and the irony of it made me sad... on this day, stepping on dog poo and waking a sea turtle is the least of our worries.

 

It struck me as I approached the end of the walkway that I was surrounded by a sprinkling of flowers tucked into waves of sea grass along the path.

 

There were hundreds of yellow blooms...

 

mixed in with purple ones waving in the warm ocean breeze.

 

At the end of the walkway to the beach I looked to my right and remembered why I love the beach...

 

and then I looked to the left... it was as beautiful as ever.

 

Once on the beach, Lisa found the sand held something to explore regardless of where your eyes carried you.

 

Another look to the left revealed in the distance a working lighthouse to guide ships in the night.

 

Gigi, Master Seeker of Shells, immediately set out to explore the shoreline...

 

Loring settled in with her bucket and shovel as there were some serious sand castle building to be done. She never left that spot.

 

Grayson and I meandered along behind Gigi... he gathered shells and treasures while I snapped photos as dusk slowly settled down upon us.

 

Books were read...

 

amid shores with little white shells, seaweed and sand. What will it look like here in the next few months?

 

Birds flew...

 

dolphins swam...

 

dogs ran ahead of their owners...

 

and sand castles were built.

 

with shells on the turrets...

 

and feather toppers.

 

And as the sun started to set, I realized just how lucky I am to have enjoyed a beach like this for a week of almost every year of my life. I am reminded how these visits to the beach have inspired me in ways I have never really thought about before. I've bought candles for my home scented with sea breeze to relax and bring into my home the peace I find on a white sandy beach. I've designed interiors with the colors of sparkling water reflecting blue skies and white sand to make a harmonious space for a client to come home to. I've read books with my toes in the sand to expand my mind and become more. For all of this I am grateful.

 

 Let’s be inspired to put politics, personal agendas and big business aside to work together as one and clean up the mess we have in our beloved gulf waters. It’s the right thing to do and we owe this to our children. Amy xoxoxo      

A simple tower fan with remote control will keep you comfortable all night without turning down the air-conditioning. Don't you adore the sitting area in this bedroom?

 

It’s steamy hot here in Florida and I’m told it’s just as uncomfortable back home in the mid-west. When I get hot here, rather than kick down the air-conditioning, I simply turn a fan towards me till I cool off, which got me to thinking today: why don’t I have more fans in my home? This question led me to these two questions:   

Can you identify areas in your home that are hotter than others or activities that you do in specific rooms that cause you to become hot? For me it’s right before the air conditioning is going to kick back on, when I’m sleeping in my 2nd story bedroom or when I’m getting ready to go out; specifically while putting making on, blow drying my hair and then styling it.   

Where do you have fans? I have a smaller fan on my desk at the office, a ceiling fan in a few of our rooms and a small fan in our bedroom facing our bed for when we sleep -  that’s it. I really don’t have a good reason as to why I don’t have more fans. I’ve decided today I need to change that.    

Think about it… strategically located fans can immediately cool you down and save money on your energy bill. Sounds like a win-win situation don’t you think?  Plus, the bonus is there are lots of different styles to choose from including floor fans, ceiling fans, wall fans, decorative fans, etc. with finishes to choose such as black, white, chrome, bronze and more. Here’s a sampling…   

This is a wall mounted fan, but you can accomplish the same thing by bracketing a desk top fan as shown below

 

A tall shelf with books, cd's and a stereo helps to conceal the cord.

 

This clip-on fan provides the perfect breeze to keep you cool while doing a load of laundry or two

 

The taller a tower fan is, the more air it will circulate. My son has a 4o" black tower fan with remote like the one above in his college apartment and loves it - especially when it saves him on their utility bill. This fan is from Amazon.

 

I've been using this miniature tower fan all week - it's my new best friend. I can't wait to get one for my bathroom - I 'm getting one for my daughter's bathroom as well!

 

I found this clever little guy at Lamps Plus - wouldn't he be fun on a desk or end table?

 

And if you really didn't want to see your fan, this faux picture frame might just do the trick! In fact, during cooler months, you could inset a photo within the frame.

 

Really, the possibilities are endless. Adding fans to my home are definitely on my to-do-list this summer that’s for sure – are they on yours?  xoxoxo Amy

This didn't last long...

 

I landed in Tampa,  Florida on Tuesday to take care of some personal business on Wednesday. By the time my friend collected me and we got on the road from the airport I was s-t-a-r-v-e-d. We were both starved. We decided to look for a place to eat near the beach and found this adorable Italian Restaurant called Cesare’s. Cesare greeted us at the door with a hug  and our waiter could not be more attentive. The hot bread with pesto dipping sauce was delicious.  

I decided to take lots of photo’s for you to show you all the cool things I’m experiencing on this trip, but apparently I was really, really hungry because the next picture I took was of the cannolis  after I wolfed down my four-cheese homemade manicotti…     

The cannolis were delicious

 

I know, I am soooooo bad. I didn’t take one more photo until after we shared the cannolis. I am striving to take more pictures today! Promise :)      

Wednesday morning we woke up in our beautiful Hyatt hotel in Clearwater Beach that we found on Priceline for a $100.00. I have to say it was quite a deal. The view is not too shabby, don’t you agree? A nice way to start the day. It makes me quite sad that these beautiful beaches, not to mention amazing wildlife, will be affected by the oil spill. It is just unimaginable.     

Beautiful. A gorgeous morning in Clearwater Beach

 

By late morning we ready to head back to my friend’s house… we were on the road by 12:30 pm or so, but by the time we did some serious damage at TJ Maxx, it was late afternoon. We had about a three-hour drive left. We were on the road again when all of a sudden… the two cars in front of us on a two- lane highway slammed on their brakes (a reason to wear seatbelts.)  

There in the middle of the road was a dog. Specifically, a big pit bull, who apparently was looking for her owner to come get her from the middle of the highway. We, along with another woman who witnessed the whole near death event,  promptly turned around and went back find her. This wasn’t hard because she kept going into the road, a road heavily traveled by semi-trucks and many, many cars. A big accident waiting  to happen, not to mention that she was most certainly going to get run over.     

Turns out she was well-trained and a gentle soul… and thirsty, really thirsty. After drinking several water bottles poured into a dish we had, she jumped into the back of the Excursion and was ready to go.   

Cute as a button

 

She sits on command and even gives her paw

 

even closer close up...

 

She had old tags that identified her as Sasha, but the number for her owner was disconnected

 

Long story short… animal services picked her up after spending the night at  Joanne’s house – the other woman who stopped. We went on our way hours later and are hoping the owner will claim her. Joanne learned his name through the tags and  discovered his page on Facebook. We haven’t heard from him yet, but his ex-wife who was found is trying to get a hold of him… don’t you love the  internet world? Let’s hope he lost her and did not dump her!!! Anyway… if I hear anything new, I’ll update right away!    

More adventures on the way today, so I have to run! xoxoxo Amy

There's more than just people watching here...

 

It’s was Tuesday afternoon as I sat in the Tampa airport luggage terminal to write this. I had personal business in Tampa on Wednesday and will be doing business in another part of Florida for the next few weeks. As I sat there, I had this thought: wouldn’t it be fun to share the cool things we saw, experienced or noticed once a week?   

The last time I travelled to Florida I blogged more via photo’s and short descriptions than written stories because I had so many fun things to you share with you. For some reason, when I’m  in Florida. I open my eyes to “see” my surroundings more than I do when back home in the daily grind of things.   

One the best things I ever did was to take a workshop called The Artists Way, based on a book by Julie Cameron. I love workshops by the way, don’t you? A good workshop, much like our own Decorate Fabulously, will stretch your mind, teach you new things, grow your confidence and most of all provide a great time with new friends. The Artists Way encourages readers to go on an Artists Date once a week to visit some place new or see something that is new to you. It could be a current art exhibit, a wine tasting festival or simply a boutique that you’ve never been to before. The key is to purposefully go somewhere new, expand your mind and “see” new things.   

I love to visit local home tours, but I probably drive whoever I go with nuts because instead of walking into each home and oohing and ahhing… (I do that sometimes as well!) I prefer to really “see” each home. Okay, yes that fireplace is fabulous…but why is it fabulous? Is it the combination of materials? The art? The scale? And if I don’t like a room when I walk in it..why don’t I like it? Is it the color? The furniture? The furniture arrangement? Truly “seeing” things that surround you is a great way to expand your creativity, garner new ideas and understand what you love and don’t love.   

My challenge to you is to begin to “see” the things around you. I promise this simple act will expand your world and suddenly open up a world of  things you ‘ve never noticed before. Try it now…what is the ceiling above you like? How is the lighting? Do you love the art? What are the baseboards like? Even if you’re in a space you have been in a 100 times, you’ll probably see something new.   

Did you see the picture at the top of this post? I snapped that as I sat down to wait for my friend to pick me up at the airport. A few seconds later everyone had gotten their luggage and it looked like this…   

Once everyone from that flight had gotten their luggage, I had time to really look around the baggage terminal

 

 What I started to notice was the use of shapes, curves and swirls combined to create a feel of movement and motion. How many curves and lines to do you see? Once you start looking, you’ll be amazed.   

Here’s a bigger picture…double click to make it larger.   

Here's a larger picture...look at the floor, ceiling, fixtures...everywhere. It's all about curves, lines and shapes.

 

My “guess” is that they used geometrical shapes, curves and patterns to encourage travellers to keep moving along. The airport is a busy place and time is important. You need time to get through security and time to get to the plane on time. A well designed interior will have a comfortable flow to encourage an easy traffic flow and for visitors to move with ease. This is on a huge scale, but we really should plan the same in our homes. A home with the same principles is easy to move from space to space and your eye encouraged to move from wall to wall, much like they did at the airport I was at in Florida   

This week I challenge you to take time to really “see” what’s around you. Make sure to share with me next week all the exciting things you see!  I’m going to take lots of photo’s to share as well! xoxoxo Amy

Dolce checking out my new chair...

 

Finally, I had found the PERFECT chair for my cocktail area…the only problem was I had my heart set on five and could only find four. Ironically, I found a table in the living room that I decided to try. It was oval and I had always envisioned round…but hey, I decided to give it a try thanks to my friend Margie’s suggestion and guess what? Yep, it was perfect. The shape has grown on me and I actually really like it. 

And…now that I really like it, guess what. Yep, I found a 5th and you’ll never believe this story. I got my chairs at HomeGoods and called all the stores within a 2 hour radius to see if I could find a 5th chair. Of course I couldn’t. Then I asked the Queen of Shopping, my friend Margie, to look in stores in Florida. And did she have any luck? Nope, none. I had resigned myself to four chairs. 

Fast-forward to this past Sunday when I get an e-mail from one of my very favorite bloggers Sarah, aka Thrifty Decor Chick, with a post she’s written about a great site called Wuslu. You can read more about the site here, but in a nutshell they have one featured product a day that they sell for a super great price for that day only. Additionally, the featured product is not revealed until that day. 

BUT… Thrifty Decor Chick had an inside look at Friday’s pick (May 28th) and I’ll bet you can’t guess what it is… 

Can you believe it? IT'S MY CHAIR!

 

Imagine my surprise! And the best part is it’s selling for $138.95 which was my cost at HomeGoods. But, you say…shipping will be outrageous. Nope…its $5.00. Seriously, shipping is $5.00. You can’t beat that! 

After looking at it closer, I think it is slightly different from mine in three, maybe four ways. Can you see the differences? 

I spy three, maybe four differences...do you?

 

Did you see these?

 

 The arrow on the first chair shows a side seam that is not present on the other chair. Additionally, the pattern runs in an opposite direction. See the pattern on each chair? Look at the sides, back and top of seat. Third, my chair, which is on the right, has three tufted buttons on the back…I don’t think there are any buttons on the one to the left. Fourth, although I’m not sure about this one, my chairs have a soft low-cut plush fabric…it looks to me that the one on the left might be a printed canvas, although the color does look the same. Not 100% sure about that though.  

For me, the differences are too big…it would drive me nuts if it didn’t match perfectly, but for you…if you want to try them in your home – I don’t think you can go wrong! I should add that I am not being paid to say this…just wanted to pass a good deal along and share the story.  Amy xoxox  

It's time to get this room some furniture!

 

Yesterday I shared how I selected the draperies for my new cocktail area and today I’m so excited to show you how it’s developed so far! A few months ago while shopping at one of my all time favorite stores – Homegoods, I stumbled upon the perfect chairs for my cocktail area. I had hung the draperies a few month prior and had yet to find the perfect chair and yet lo and behold…there they were. Well, there two of them anyway… and they were beautiful. I promptly bought them and called surrounding stores locating two more.    

I could have not have found a chair that matches any better...I love them!

 

Beanie adores the new chairs too...

 

and so does Angel... it's their new favorite place to unwind

 

I needed a table, but just could not find one I liked. I wanted it  high as the top of the chair seat or maybe even a bit higher. I also wanted it big enough for 5 chairs, just in case I miraculously discovered one more…more on that tomorrow. In the meantime, I borrowed a table from the living room and I actually found it to work quite well. It’s an oval shape and looks quite unique. I like it…what do you think?    

Here is a view of the table from the living area. It's morning and the sun is shining in...

 

If you walked through my front door and looked to your left, this is what you would see. I put one of the mirrors I previously had on the adjacent wall above a fern and placed a chess set on the table...

 

To the left is a desk that belonged to my husband's Grandmother. It still needs to be accessorized properly, but I love it in this corner. I placed a small crystal lamp that I got at a yard sale for $15 on top and in the evening it sends a soft gentle glow to that corner of the room

 

Here’s the room standing in front of the living room sofa. Eventually, the fan is going up stairs and I’ll hang a pendant fixture over the table and chairs. I also want to add an area rug and valances to the french doors, but even though it’s not complete I must say… it’s one of my favorite rooms in the house.

Tomorrow I have a “I can’t believe it” story and a source for to get the same chairs at a great price… xoxox Amy   

Ready-Made lined draperies from Z Gallerie, and yes, that's dolce and sami checking it out. Nosy aren't they?

 

I have an area that is kind of sorta attached to my living room and shamefully it has never been used. Even worse…it’s never had furniture in it except for when we set up card tables for a occaisional graduation party or two. I have always envisioned it as a cocktail area; a place that guests can spill into for a cozy conversation or two. Of course if it’s a family gathering, that conversation may be a bit livelier, haha! Family is always entertaining isn’t it?   

I don’t have a before photo of the room, but below is a “before” photo of the dining room that’s nearby with the previous owners furniture. The room I’m working on had  dirty white walls, blue/grey carpet and the same floral draperies… at least that is, until I moved in. They came down the second I took a breath. Actually, the day I moved in.  We later replaced the blue carpet with hardwood and painted the walls gold. That was as far as we got until recently.    

Picture dirty white walls, those floral valances and yuk gray-blue carpet...that was what we started with. It still makes me shudder

 

 Here’s was my thought process…   

  • I want the two rooms to flow…the paint is already the same  and I want the same fabric for all the windows in both rooms as well. This will help create visual flow and continuity between the spaces. 
  • Draperies for three sets of french doors and 5 windows (10 panels) =  pricy
  • To stay within a reasonable budget, I need to stick with ready-made
  • Because there are so many windows, the draperies need to be subtle enough that they don’t take-over the look of the room
  • I needed to find lined draperies not only for a consistent appearance from outside looking in, but to protect the fabric from the sun that comes in every morning.
  • My color scheme is gold, chocolate, and creme.
  • I have 9 foot ceilings and want 108″ long draperies so they puddle like the one’s in the Dining Room
  • I need to order two extra panels to have classic valances made for the 6 doors (3 sets of french doors).
  • The more I spend on drapes, the less I have to use somewhere else…I need a deal :)

   

   

TIP: Getting a “deal” does not mean sacrificing style or look. It means looking deeper and sometimes longer than normal to find exactly what you want at a great price. NEVER sacrifice the look for the price. Be patient and you will find it. Kind of like that baseball movie…build it and they come…or something like that – haha!    

I have three of these windows plus french doors to work with. The windows are getting ready-made panels and in the future, the doors are getting custom valances.

 

 A DESIGN DILEMA   

Although the future cocktail area and the living room have many similarities: identical windows, matching french doors and walls painted with Gold Buff from Home Depot, there is one significant difference. The cocktail area has beautiful crown molding and the living area does not. Since adding crown molding is not on the current agenda, I had a problem with the length of the draperies.  I wanted my drapes hung close to the top of the ceiling and for both rooms to have the same size puddle on the floor. The crown molding put a bit of a crimp in this because it means the rods in the cocktail area will be installed several inches lower than the one’s in the living room.   

THE SOLUTION:   

The solution actually was quite simple. In the room with the crown moulding, I slipped the rod through the sleeve in the top of the drapery…   

Under the crown moulding the drapes are hung directly from the rod using the sleeve of the drapery

 

   

In the other room that didn’t have crown moulding I attached the draperies to the rod with rings. The rings gave me an extra few inches or so of length which allowed me to hang it higher and closer to the ceiling, but still have the same puddle effect.  Obviously, It would have been nice to just add crown moulding, but it isn’t on my list of priorities right now and truth be told,  I have to say I really like it.   

In the main living area, the drapes are hung with clips; adding a few precious inches for a quick solution

 

   

Here you can see the difference in this photo. The draperies make such a difference don't you think?

 

   

Here's another shot...tomorrow, I'll show photo's of the furniture! I am falling in love with this room...

 

The fan will be replaced eventually, and the mirrors have already been relocated…it’s a work in progress, but what do you think so far? Amy xoxoxo

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